Friday, June 20, 2008

Life's Goals

We all attend motivational courses at least once in our life time, but a lot of people would have attended numerous courses. And after awhile it is more like an addiction towards these courses, it happens most often to people who seek career in the insurance industries and direct selling business. Are these courses beneficial to the attendees? Most people will give a solid yes without even a blink of the eye, why? Because all attendees will feel recharged after the course and energetically continue to pursue their career, this is very great, but then if we look deeper, motivation shall come from within ourselves. And what is within us? Then it boils down to the goals in life, which is the most favorite topic of all motivators, goals setting.


They will ask you to list down what you want to achieve and by when? Everybody will start to take a pen and paper to write down what they want, and most of the time is mostly material objects, like cars, houses, vacation and so on. They start to work on it and achieve it, then the car is not big enough and the next goal is to acquire a bigger, and will never end. One day this person will sits down and ask himself, did I achieve success in life?


Then he will ask himself what success is and what are the goals in life? This is an age old question in life, but there is no definite answer to it. But if we look closer into ourselves it is all about having a good life and always feels good about it. Very vague isn’t it, but nobody can answer it, to answer it, we need to look into the seven goals in life.


  1. Financial Goal – By achieving financial goal does not means an enormous sum of money, but is about achieving financial freedom.
  2. Physical Goal – Is about having a good health to see through your life time. And this good health will gives you the energy to carry out your missions in life.
  3. Family Goal – Are you having a healthy and a happy family life?
  4. Mental Goal – Are you acquiring new knowledge, keeping abreast with changes in our world, and using this knowledge?
  5. Human Relation Goal – Are you having a good circle of friends, and this circle of friends will always welcome your presence?
  6. Social Goal – Are you contributing for the good of the societies, and helping the needy, which in short is, are you philanthropy?
  7. Spiritual Goal – This come into play, for you to attain a peaceful self, do the good things in life, as all religions teaches us to be good and morally strong.

Only by attaining the above seven goals, then only we can consider ourselves to be having success in life, and there is no yard stick or bench mark to measure it, it all comes from within us.

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Wow, most people only think of big house and car when it comes to motivation. Looks like there is more to it than that.....

Anonymous said...

Yeah, i fully agree. most seminars just tell you make more money, think positive and all the jazz...

Thiam Choy